The Ultimate Guide on How to Elope in Wisconsin

Eloping in Wisconsin is more than just getting married, it’s about creating a day that’s stress-free, adventurous, and truly reflects your story. Whether you dream of exchanging vows on a secluded lakeshore, in the middle of a towering forest, or on top of a scenic bluff, this guide will walk you through EVERYTHING you need to know to plan an epic Wisconsin elopement. Keep reading to learn about How to Elope in Wisconsin with No Regrets.

What even is an Elopement (And Is It Right for You?)

Elopements have evolved beyond the old idea of running off to get married in secret. Now, eloping is all about crafting a wedding day that feels like YOU. No pressure, no huge guest lists, just an intimate, intentional day. If a big wedding doesn’t feel right, and you’d rather focus on each other instead of the expectations of a traditional wedding, eloping might be the perfect fit.

How to Legally Get Married in Wisconsin | How to Elope in Wisconsin with No Regrets

1. Self-Solemnization in Wisconsin: Can You Marry Yourselves?

Technically yes Wisconsin does allows self-solemnization, which means you don’t need an officiant to make it legal. You can marry yourselves, making your ceremony even more personal. But, couples may only self marry in cases where one of the marrying parties (or both) belong to a religious society, denomination, or sect that has customs, rules, or regulations on self solemnization. The word of the applicant is normally sufficient enough and proof is not required. However, some county clerks might have different requirements, so it’s best to double-check with the specific county where you’re applying.

You can read more about Wisconsin self marriages here on page 23.

2. Do You Need Witnesses?

In Wisconsin, you will need witnesses, even if you self-solemnize, witnesses are still required! Pro tip: your photographer (that’s me!) and if I have an assistant with me we can both sign as witnesses if needed.

3. How to Get Your Marriage License to Elope in Wisconsin

• Apply in the county where either of you resides (or where you’ll be eloping if you’re from out of town)
• Provide proof of identification and residence
• Review and sign marriage license application
• Pick up marriage license worksheet
• The license is valid for 60 days.

Want the full Wisconsin County Clerk Marriage Handbook? You can view it here.

The Best Wisconsin Elopement Locations | How to Elope in Wisconsin with No Regrets

1. Devil’s Lake State Park

Perfect for dramatic cliffs, hiking trails, and gorgeous backdrops.

2. Kohler-Andrae State Park

Think sandy beaches and dreamy sand dunes for a coastal elopement feel, but in Wisconsin.

3. Washington Island Lavender Farm

A totally unique, lavender field experience in peak summer. They don’t advertise that they host weddings or elopements but they will if you email them!

4. Milwaukee, Wisconsin

Literally so many locations in Milwaukee!! City Hall, Milwaukee Art Museum, the Third Ward, Cupertino Park, Lakeshore Park, Schlitz, and so many more!!

4. Madison Capitol

Such a gorgeous and underrated spot for elopements! You get that stunning architecture mixed with the charm of downtown Madison, plus so many great photo spots nearby. If you are planning to get married with a small amount of guest and don’t need a private room or chairs, you won’t need a permit. I recommend checking if there’s any events going on and no Saturdays because of the farmers market.

Want a deeper dive into more gorgeous elopement locations in Wisconsin? You’ll love my Wisconsin elopement location guide!

How to Include Family in Your Wisconsin Elopement

Not sure how to elope without upsetting your loved ones? Here are a few ways to include them:

• Have a post-elopement party – Celebrate with a small reception later!
• Live stream your ceremony – Bring them along virtually.
• Write letters for them to read on your day – A sentimental touch that means the world.

Additionally, if you want more ideas, here’s my full guide on how to include family in your Wisconsin elopement!

Planning Your Dream Wisconsin Elopement | How to Elope in Wisconsin with No Regrets

Firstly, you’ll want to decide on a date and season

Each season in Wisconsin has its perks. Fall? Stunning colors. Winter? Gorgeous snow-covered landscapes. Summer? Endless outdoor adventure opportunities.

Secondly, you’ll want to secure your vendors

At the very least, you’ll want:

• A photographer who understands elopements (Hey, that’s me! Let’s chat!)
• A florist
• Hair & makeup

Lastly, you’ll want to make it legal

Don’t forget to check permit requirements for state parks or private venues. Need help? I handle all that for my couples!

Ready to Plan Your Wisconsin Elopement?

How to Elope in Wisconsin

If eloping in Wisconsin sounds like the dream, I’d love to help you create a day that feels 100% YOU. From scouting locations to planning your timeline, I handle all the logistics so you don’t have to stress.

Regardless of where you’re planning to elope, I’ll be here for you!

Want even more elopement inspiration? 10/10 would recommend checking out this elopement blog for state parks to elope at!

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